Help me care for my mother and my two aunts: three older sisters living with dementia and disability.I am their only caregiver.
My mother and my two aunts depend on me every day for meals, safety, medical appointments, and a dignified home.
Since April 9, 2026, I have been in Maracaibo caring for them. They cannot be left alone, and since then I have not been able to return to work normally.
I am asking for help to sustain their food, health, safety, and daily care.
♡ Why I am asking for help
Three women who once cared for others now need care themselves
This is not a one-day emergency. It is an ongoing situation of dependency and continuous care.
I returned to Maracaibo to care for my mother and my two aunts. The three of them are sisters, and they can no longer manage daily life on their own.
In this home, we live with dementia, intellectual disability, seizures, loss of independence, difficulty walking, incontinence, and episodes of confusion. They need supervision to eat, bathe, move around, and remain safe.
They cannot be left alone: they may become disoriented, eat all the available food, use the kitchen unsafely, or leave the house without understanding the danger. That is why my work and the life I had before have been put on hold.
Every contribution goes directly toward food, medication, transportation, hygiene, repairs, and hours of caregiving support.
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My mother, Elvia
She lives with persistent confusion and seizures. She requires supervision, medical follow-up, and specialized testing.
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My aunt Alba
She was a lawyer and lived independently. Dementia has affected her memory, orientation, and ability to manage her life safely.
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My aunt Yoalis
She has an intellectual disability, difficulty walking, and needs constant help with hygiene, routines, and safety.
What the support is for
Four essential needs we must sustain
Select “Read more” to see the details of each need.
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Monthly need
Food
Approx. US$900 per month
Three people need nutritious meals every day. The budget focuses on protein, natural fats, vegetables, and basic hygiene supplies.
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Eggs, sardines, and tuna in water.
Beef shank, beef ribs, and chicken.
Cheese, cream, and natural butter.
Tomatoes, carrots, cucumbers, and papaya.
Toilet paper, garbage bags, soap, and adult diapers.
Prices change constantly in Maracaibo, so this amount is approximate.
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Ongoing need
Medication and transportation
Treatment, medical appointments, and transportation
My mother and my aunts need daily medication, medical follow-up, diagnostic testing, and safe transportation to healthcare facilities.
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Treatment for my mother and my older aunt:
Memantine, 10 mg tablets.
Valproic acid, 500 mg tablets.
Risperidone, 2 mg tablets.
My younger aunt, who has an intellectual disability, requires:
Sertraline, 50 mg tablets.
Lithium carbonate, 300 mg tablets.
In addition: they are given magnesium capsules, Magnevit 4X.
We also need to cover medical appointments, pending tests, and taxis or other safe transportation for healthcare visits and related errands.
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Safety and dignity
Urgent home needs
Urgent repairs
The house has electrical hazards, roof leaks, and unsanitary conditions that threaten the safety and health of everyone living here.
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Electrical hazards and leaks: the zinc roof has multiple leaks. During Maracaibo's heavy rains, water falls directly onto exposed electrical wiring running across the ceiling. The risk of a short circuit or fire is constant and frightening.
Overgrowth and unsanitary conditions: the yard and front area are completely overgrown, creating shelter for rats and mosquitoes and increasing the risk of infection. Two large loquat trees also need urgent pruning to prevent further damage to the structure.
This is not about cosmetic remodeling. These repairs are necessary to reduce real hazards and make the house safer and more livable.
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Human care
Caregiving relief and support
Hours of caregiving support
One person cannot provide 24-hour care indefinitely without putting her own health at risk.
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A support caregiver would help with supervision, meals, hygiene, routines, safety, and companionship while I handle errands or rest.
You can also help by contributing time, food, services, or specific supplies.
A look at the parts of the house that also need help
These images show some of the problems affecting the safety, hygiene, and dignity of the people who live here.
Roof leaks
When it rains, water enters several areas of the house and causes further deterioration.
Electrical hazard
Water falls onto areas with exposed wiring, creating a serious risk of a short circuit or fire.
Overgrowth and unsanitary conditions
The yard and front area need urgent clearing to reduce mosquitoes, pests, and sources of infection.
Urgent tree pruning
The loquat trees need pruning to prevent further damage to the house and surrounding area.
How to donate
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MoneyGram and Pago Móvil are the two main options. PayPal and Bancolombia are also available as alternatives.
United States and other countries
Donate with MoneyGram
The transfer is processed through MoneyGram and can be deposited directly into my Banesco account in Venezuela.
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Direct deposit into my Banesco account
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Choose Venezuela as the destination and select bank account deposit when available.
Enter the recipient's information and the Banesco account details.
Review the information, confirm the transfer, and save the receipt.
Recipient
Elvira Villasmil
Bank and account type
Banesco · Checking account
Account number
0134-0081-48-0811144737
ID number
V-16.081.645
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An alternative for those who wish to transfer from Colombia.
Savings account
690 000048 24
ID number
5005740377
Account holderElvira Villasmil
Transparency
Your support goes directly to this household
I, Elvira Villasmil, organize this campaign directly. I keep records of contributions, purchases, and progress, and I share part of the process so people can understand how the support is being used.
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